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Rich201 71 M
1  question
Stimulating the prostate - 10/11/2001

What is the best position for the sub to be in to stimulate his prostate with your penis? Is the penis capable of feeling the prostate through the rectal lining?

0 response(s), 0 votes
CORY300 54 M
7  questions
How do I go for seconds and thirds? - 10/3/2001

I am very oral and love to fuck all the time. But I am never able to get off because after I blow my load I am finished. I always suck guys off or let them fuck me until they blow it on me or in my mouth, and I love that part!But is there anyway for me to be able to get a load off while I'm being fucked and still find any interest in having sex afterwards?

0 response(s), 0 votes
sb2bmd 43 M
1  question
Deep non-queer voice! - 9/19/2001

Is there anything to do to get that deep masculine voice. I have one of those gay type voices and I don't like it and I'm new to this but have always had this voice? Why? What can I do to get that deep manly voice?

2 response(s), 3 votes
CORY300 54 M
7  questions
Will my lust for cock in my ass cause long term problems? - 9/7/2001

I love to fucked in the ass and always fuck myself with a big dildo when there is no cock to be found.I always play safe but I want to know if I am damaging my ass. As I get older will I have problems from stretching my asshole out? I love to get fucked by large cock and play with really large toys. I am very thin and only 30 y.o.But need the advise of an old pro. Does it cause any trouble ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
dirk_191 45 M
1  question
Where to find guys in philly? - 9/7/2001

I am looking for my first time. However, I can not seem to meet guys in the philly area? Where do people go to meet? Besides bars?

1 response(s), 3 votes
JoJo111 38 M
3  questions
Is okay for an 18 year old to want to have sex with men that are 40 and older? - 8/23/2001

I am an 18 year virgin and it really turns me on when I think about having sex with much older men. I would love to have my first gay sex experience with an older guy. Do you think that I should keep up hope that this dream will come ture or should I stick to men my own age?

5 response(s), 6 votes
mark196986 58 M
2  questions
divorced first time - 8/22/2001

I'm a divorced male and never had been with a man but I feel very horny when fantasize about being fucked by a big one. I get really aroused when I see men in my club's sauna. What would you recommend to me?

2 response(s), 0 votes
CORY300 54 M
7  questions
How do I make sure my ass is cleaned out?? - 8/21/2001

I love to get fucked in the ass but I am always concerned that while getting fucked that my ass is not free of any shit.I flush myself out before I fuck and have had few problems. I notice that when I am fucking myself with a dildo that it is not always completely clean. How can I make sure I don't have any gross problems while with a guy in my ass???

1 response(s), 1 vote
CORY300 54 M
7  questions
Shaved or not????? - 8/20/2001

I am a very smooth bodied guy that also shaves 99% of my pubic hair. I feel that it is so much more comfortable and clean. I also enjoy the added sensation of a hot cock or balls touching my bare skin.Most guys say that they think it is also sexy to have only the thin stripe of hair from my navel to my cock. Is this sexy to anyone here or do you prefer the hairy look?Are these guys telling ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
CORY300 54 M
7  questions
Does cum make you more horny??? - 8/7/2001

Why is it that no matter how long I fuck or how many guys tag me the first site of some cum gets me all fired up again? I can take it in the ass for a long time(until it feels like my guts are getting pulled out)and if I'm with one guy or four, the first one of them that shoots a load on me or all the better in my mouth, makes me forget about the load I was about to shoot!!I could be fucked ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
CORY300 54 M
7  questions
Am I to old for porn?? - 8/6/2001

I am 31 yrs old and very attractive, well hung and smooth all over. I have a thin body, love to suck cock and get it in the ass!!Is there anyone out there that would enjoy watching someone like me fucking on tape or should I quit dreaming?And if there is a market for me where do I find it???

0 response(s), 0 votes
GoldenJay 58 M
1  question
How do I find great models who want to make serious art? - 8/1/2001

I'm a professional fine art photographer, among other things. But I'm based in the greater Detroit area (i.e.: not New York!) and I have a lousy time finding guys who are willing to model. I'm nice looking, still in the prime. There seem to be lots of guys who'll do porn--but that's not what I'm after! I need guys who want to be creative and want to make art--and who might want to ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
lonly2night 55 M
1  question
Are divorce & lonliness linked? - 7/23/2001

Sine my divorce 4 years ago and came out that i was bisexual i've hade numorous friend, one or two flings but nothing lasting why is it that people judge you on what they have heard and dont wan't to get to know you and if they do others just put them down so much they would rather lose contact than prove others wrong . I seem to spend most of the time behind closed doors so as not to get ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
kc52 76 M
1  question
Alone and bored in Orlando,Fla - 7/21/2001

Am tired of the street and bar scene in Orlando, Fla. Doesn't seem to be any sincere or interesting people left in the city..Everyoe too busy searching for that eternal high, from drugs or alchol..not into either one but a searching for someone seeking good conversaton and likes to go out and do "normal" things like ole' fashioned dating..Seems like these days are lost forever..Is there ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
philedd 64 M
1  question
How come everyone has a thing about size? - 7/21/2001

I have been a member of this and a few other sites for a while now and evryone I seem to talk to has a thing about the size of someones penis that is not the only thing that counts after all its not the size that matters it's the way you use it that counts as I have only a small penis. it sounds as if i can't have good sex, which in my mine is a load of rubbish as I can cum as good as the ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
johng23 44 M
2  questions
What to do on a first date? - 7/20/2001

I have just met this guy on outpersonals. Next month we are going to meet. we have talked about what we are going to do when we meet and he agrees on every point that we had talked about it is as though we have been friends for yours, we really want to experiement with each other to the up-most so if any one there has any points for me to practise on him on our date please drop me a line in ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
hardindc 48 M
1  question
Help! - 7/18/2001

I am 30 years old. I have been only into girls my whole life. But one day I was playing around on the internet and I accidentally clicked on a gay web site. It REALLY turned me on. Since then, I have been very interested in having man to man sex. Any advice?

2 response(s), 0 votes
BRO967 55 M
1  question
Are threesome advertisements true? - 7/17/2001

How do you know when someone advertising for a threesome is for real? I have been trying to find a couple for a threesome for two years and keep running into the same problem. Usually they advertise as a threesome but what they are really looking for is a guy for the male of the couple. Are there any couples who are truly looking for a threesome? And if so, how does one find them?

0 response(s), 2 votes
mark196986 58 M
2  questions
Kissing Another Man fantasy - 7/5/2001

I'm a straight man, in fact I can't think of love or kiss another man and I love women, but I have a strong fantasy about take another man's cock in my hand and about being fucked by a man (that fantasy gets me very horny). What you can say or recomend about it?

1 response(s), 0 votes
CORY300 54 M
7  questions
Where do you tops want us?? - 7/4/2001

I am a young thin bottom and want to know what tops prefer.It is much more comfortable and sexually enjoying to me to get fucked when I am on my back.Some of the guys I have been with want me on my hands and knees.Does this feel better to a top?If so I dont have a problem doing it I just would like to know so I dont need to ask during play time.

0 response(s), 0 votes
GayMinor 30 M
1  question
Help a young helpless gay..... - 7/1/2001

Im pretty young and yet to find out if anyone I have come in contact with is gay.I'm hoping some of yalls have been in this situation and can help me out. How do I find local young gay guys without having to come out to everyone, or how do I find out if people are straight or gay without having to ask them, because I know they'll lie if they are gay.

1 response(s), 0 votes
marios2000 39 M
1  question
why do the boys like older man? - 6/3/2001

i get that in mine mail box often and i dont know the reason but i do is not only me in the same position and i don´t know nothing wrong with that i just do like older man...

2 response(s), 0 votes
mike77q 60 M
1  question
5 to 7 inches. - 5/4/2001

is it normal for a person to have a 5"hard-on one day and the next time 7"? it just seems like somedays my dick is huge, and other days...what happened to you. could beating off too much have anything to do with it?

3 response(s), 0 votes
sglad76 47 M
1  question
Interracial Relationship - 5/4/2001

Is there an unwritten rule that says that a relationship cannot exist between two different people of different race? eg. a chinese and a caucasian? It seems everytime I mention that I'm a chinese to someone online, or through emails, I can sense their disappointment that I'm not one of them. Should race play an important role in a couple's relationship? aren't we taught that love would ...

1 response(s), 0 votes
juveel_4 44 M
1  question
What should I do with a broken soul? - 4/6/2001

This is heavy question, but I need to ask since I'm not getting any response from somewhere else. The reason is that one of my good friends, who's gay, was brutally during somekind of party at someone's place I do not know. He is so much broken, that I always get tears in my eyes I see him. What should I do? How should I cure his pain and discomfort? I don't love him, I've got a boyfriend, ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
Dynamic1 79 M
1  question
GAGGED & BOUND; why does my b/f want to do that? - 4/3/2001

My boyfriend and I have been together almost 10 years, and I think he must be tired of our relationship status. He has "suggested" a number of times that he would like to tie me up and gag me and "have his way with me." What does this prove? It scares the hell out of me because I think I would freak from not having the freedom to move about. He is becoming more insistent. Why? What ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
randy219 53 M
1  question
why i'm gay? - 3/31/2001

for the first time in my life i will give you the bad site about bad side about my life: i'm 30 y.o married! but always looking for men cocks! ! i don't know..... but truely no body did any things bad to me. when i was in university , i used to do bad things like kissing, with one guy. after we graduated , we used to see each others for the same things until we get merried one day ...

0 response(s), 1 vote
tbdi69 45 M
1  question
how will your westerners think about it? - 12/22/2000

i'm an asian. i would like to consult your western guys couple questions. how these will be perceived in your eyes <br> 1.how do you think a guy who had sex with your good frined, but you're also feel like each other while you're put afterwards? will you still give that guy a chance? or to how much extent would you tolerate? <br> 2.how do you feel if the guy just had sex with ...

0 response(s), 0 votes
lookinsmall 52 M
1  question
COMMING OUT - 12/8/2000

i AM MARRIED AND i AM GAY I MARRIED BECAUSE OF FAMILY. i HAVE TWO AND DONT WANT TO BE WITH MY WIFE .i CANT TELL HER i AM GAY THAT IS JUST DOWN RIGHT MEAN TO DO TO A PERSON , BUT i HAVE TRYED TO LEAVE ABOUT 4 TIMES AND EVERYTIME SHE MAKES ME FEEL BAD ABOUT THE AND I STAY WHAT SHUOLD I DO?I AM 29 AND JUST WANT TO BE HAPPY . I LIKE TO MAKE PEOPLE HAPPY SO HOW DO I MAKE MYSELF HAPPY

0 response(s), 0 votes
s_paul0 55 M
1  question
Premature ejaculation - 10/13/2000

I enjoy sex and especially fucking, but it does not seem to last for long enough. Do you have any tips for prolonging the experience. I need to delay as long as I can cumming.

0 response(s), 0 votes